Most daughters feel they are not doing enough for Mom.
“…I should be more caring.”
“…I should be there to help more.”
“…I should not be this overwhelmed.”
“I Should…”
This verb is something we hear far too often. In our world, more often then not it comes from a daughter who deeply loves her aging mother, yet feels she has not done enough for her.
We know you love your mom! Sure…you have had your struggles in the past, but she cared for you deeply from when you were very small to even this very day. Now this is your chance to care for her. The only hard part is all the other things you have going on in your life. You have your family; husband, kids, maybe even grandkids. You have your work, hobbies, even your health. Regardless to say, you have enough going on as is. Now you see that your mom is slowing down, and you want to be there for her. But, the question always on your mind is, “am I doing enough?”
Some days the guilt is so heavy, you feel like you will be crushed. The reality is that this weight can crush you. Once you get crushed, then what is hard now will become nearly impossible. We see this happen almost every day.
But, does it have to be this way?
To help, we have a gift for you. We want to provide you with a free eBook to show you 10 ways to reduce your stress and to help you begin to balance all the load on your shoulders. Put in your email below so we can send to you this vital free gift. It is completely free. And it will begin to lift all that weight you feel right now.
AKOTA Home Care is a home care company that has been helping daughters just like you for decades. We can help guide you in to care for your mom. You have not done this before and if you had a guide to assist you, it would be so much easier.
We are your guide.
We can show you how to set up care, how to manage, how to pay for it, and, if you need a caregiver, we can provide a caregiver for your mother. We can help you manage all these things. We say, “AKOTA takes care of all the care!” WE do one massively important thing for you: We let you be a daughter again.
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Our Story
AKOTA Home Care is a family-owned and operated company that grew out of a family situation just like yours. AKOTA Home Care and our sister company in Washington DC has been serving families since 1994. We started because our grandmother, who was living in North Carolina, began to be unsafe in her home. Her arthritis made her unstable. One day we received a call that she had fallen…and spent hours on the floor. We were five hours away! We scrambled and got a caregiver to help. Then another one since the first did not show a couple of times. Then some money went missing. It was a mess. We felt out of our control.
At that time, our founder decided we should start a home care company. Our president was in seminary at that time and thought leading a home care company was not what he wanted to do. But he and his wife started thinking they would hand the home care company off to someone else after a few months.
Then they fell in love with serving seniors!
What started out as something to do for a couple months has turned out to be a 26-year adventure! The same couple and their family are still running AKOTA Home Care and loving every part of it. When you choose AKOTA, you are choosing a company that has seen every possible situation. We are not a franchise where the founders are off somewhere else. We have decades of personal experience to help you navigate home care and all the twists and turns ahead of you.
A gift for you
Here is your free gift! Put your email in the box below and we will rush to you the free eBook on reducing your stress. Hope is on the horizon! You can do this! We can help. Let us be your guide in navigating the confusing and stressful path of aging.